Bully Proof: The Gift of Self-Esteem
Concepts and Practical Strategies For Parents, Educators and Coaches
by Chris Leigh-Smith
Illustrations by Sabrina Niebler
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Everyone has been affected by violence, intimidation and bullying to some degree. How we choose to respond to it makes all the difference. The way we handle the difficult times can be the catalyst to becoming an assertive person. So, we begin our journey into true freedom. Let’s arm our children with self-awareness, confidence and courage. Let’s coach them so they have an intellectual understanding of the bully, and teach them social and emotional skills that will allow them to thrive in a world where bullies have always existed. Your child can start to alter his or her experience and install a deeper sense of confidence and peace. Teach your child to see the value in the opportunity for personal growth.
What we can learn from bullies is so special that it affects our whole lives. In our desire to protect our children from the bully, the bully experience is often labeled as a negative one. If children can be taught that the bully experience can provide opportunities for growth, then there is a shift in perception that allows for that growth to happen. This book is for the whole family, educators, and coaches. There are three major sections. Part I explores concepts for bully proofing centred around building self-esteem. These concepts are enriched by the tradition of storytelling which can be shared with children and students. Part II provides activities and strategies to help your children enter the world of assertiveness. There is often a gap between the desire to be assertive and the ability to reach that goal. This section guides parents and educators to become the loving mentor that supports children in transitioning from doubt to confidence. Part III goes beyond bully proofing to authentic relationships, recognizing that everyone needs healing. The reader is invited to embark on an adventure that goes way beyond being competent with bullies; this journey is one of evolving self-leadership. As with all adventures, the only limitation to inner greatness is fear and fear’s many masks. I wish you a bold and daring life, rich with experiences that you harness for personal growth and happiness. |
Available now through Friesen Press or on Amazon! E-book available on iTunes & Google Play, or the Tao of Peace office.
Testimonials
"This upbeat, brains-over-brawn approach urges children to think of getting bullied as a challenging opportunity for personal improvement and growth, rather than as a negative encounter... conversational stories and sayings are memorable...Useful ideas about dealing with bullies..."- Kirkus Review
"Fantastic book for teachers, parents, various instructors and all the people that want to help kids to succeed! I highly recommend having this book in everybody's library, as it contains precious advice that help us to understand better our children and even look at ourselves from a different point of view."-Vladimir S. "I just finished reading your book "Bully Proof". Wow! Your wealth of wisdom and stand for love are flowing throughout. It is a thorough, practical and life-changing resource." - Nancy N. |
